kostas & christiana
Six years in the making, letters exchanged in private, and a bachata with fireworks
Christiana once wrote that before she knew Kostas, she would never have been with anyone. She would have stayed single. Not out of some romantic principle. Just because nobody else made sense. The version of Kostas she first met was guarded, closed off, always on defence. But something pulled her in anyway, and she could never explain it. It took time. He opened up. Not for her, but for himself. And that is what won her over. They have been together for six years now, and the way she describes it is simple. ‘‘In love, with plenty of madness and humour’’. Their favourite thing in the world is a road trip with no plan. Music on, her camera in hand, making him stop the car every time she sees something worth photographing. If they stay home, it is board games, talking, and laughing until they forget what time it is.
They are from the same village. Christiana's sister married Kostas's cousin, which made anything between them feel… ‘‘forbidden’’. But the moment Kostas made the move, that was it. There was always something in the air when they were around each other, and once he acted on it, nothing else mattered. He proposed at The Agora Hotel in Lefkara with Leonard Cohen playing in the background. The timing was complicated, and Christiana was not in an easy place. It took months before she could look at the ring and feel what she wanted to feel. But she got there. And once she did, she did not look back.
They had written letters to each other, to be opened before the day started. Kostas had the traditional Cypriot groom's preparation at his family home in Kato Polemidia. His moment with Christiana's words was one of the quietest parts of the whole wedding. He alone, reading, saying nothing. Across town in Agios Athanasios, Christiana's preparation had the same energy. The room was packed with friends and family, singing and clapping around her. She had written letters of her own, not just to Kostas. One to her maid of honour, who could not hold it together after reading it. One to close relatives. She wanted people to know what they meant to her before the day carried everyone forward. Two loud, full mornings. The only stillness was the letters.
The ceremony was at Ayios Stylianos Church in Agios Athanasios. Fuchsia and orange flowers lined the entrance. Those colours ran through every part of the day, warm and intense, exactly like them. After the ceremony, colourful daytime fireworks went off outside the church. Pinks, oranges, whites rising against a clean blue sky while they kissed in front of everyone.
They chose Charidio Venue in Choirokoitia because they both wanted a garden. Outdoor, simple, minimal. The kind of place where the evening air does half the work. They walked in through a crowd of sparklers, and the first dance began as a bachata to "Kiss Me" by Lola Jane, then shifted into something looser and more playful.
Christiana's cousins have a tradition. Every time someone in the family gets married, they choreograph a surprise for the couple. Tutus, sunglasses, a full routine on the dance floor. The energy did not come down after that. It only went up.
There is a whole other side to this wedding that was not filmed on the day itself. I took Kostas and Christiana into the old town of Limassol on a separate day for their couple session. We walked the narrow streets past the water tower, through coloured walls and street art, stopped at Alice Coffee and at Tria Poulakia for drinks. No timeline, no guests, no schedule. Just the two of them, the way they are on one of their Sundays. That session gave the film something the wedding day alone could not. Space. Stillness. A version of them that only exists when nobody else is watching.
This was a day with a lot of life in it. From preparations all the way to the last dance, the energy these two bring out in the people around them is something you feel immediately. I really enjoyed being part of it.
Vendors
Filmmaker: Red Lens Films
Venue: Charidio
Dress: Primalicia
Groom's Suit: Kouross
Makeup: Iliana Nikolaidou
Hair: Maria Komodromou
Florist: The Gift Industry Events
Catering: Occhio Cake: Miltiadous Drinks: Beer Bros
DJ: Skenter
Jeweler: Zacharias
Content Creators: The Wedding Socials
Neon Light: Monte Neon