Brendan found in Katarzyna a steadfastness he had not expected. Katarzyna found in Brendan the family she had been looking for. Two people from different places. Ireland and Poland. A venue at Lexeko Estate in Cyprus, with swans on the lake and horses in the field beyond.

The ceremony was bilingual. Greek and English. The priest held both languages throughout. Polish songs followed. Golden oldies, classic rock, Cat Stevens, Amy Winehouse. A boho-chic room with eucalyptus, gold, and ivory, each table named after a tree.

But the moment I remember most was the first dance. Brendan and Katarzyna’s children from their previous relationships led it. The room knew what it was watching. These were not two people starting over. They were building something bigger than the two of them.